I’ve Been A Poser

I have been MIA for awhile now. Well not completely. I’ve been posting online fairly regularly, but I have checked out somewhat as well. I sat last week while being down flat with the sickness when suddenly the past ten months replayed every scene before me. Until that moment I hadn’t fully realized the weight Read more about I’ve Been A Poser[…]






Confession Brings Freedom

My overarching message when I speak is wrapped around confession and forgiveness bringing freedom. When I finally came to the life-changing moment of self-forgiveness, every single thing about my life changed. @@I believe the hardest person to forgive is yourself.@@ So coming face-to-face with my life’s ugly-reel playing before my eyes was scary, yet surprisingly Read more about Confession Brings Freedom[…]






Dear Nicki Minaj…

“I thought I was going to die. . . It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through. . . It has haunted me all my life.” Nicki Minaj on her teen abortion.  I have to admit, reading this surprised me. Not the abortion part, but her remorse. And the fact that I have not seen many Read more about Dear Nicki Minaj…[…]






Super-Hero Courage

This last week I was a part of a conference that isn’t your typical conference. Especially for women. This conference deals with issues that aren’t talked about much. Especially in the church. We’re talking about porn addiction, sexual addictions, alcohol addiction… the things that aren’t seen with the eye, but they still exist. I got Read more about Super-Hero Courage[…]






The Man Response

I gotta be honest – I knew when my book released it would resonate with women. I knew I would get private messages and emails from women on the verge of giving up and walking away. I knew secrets would be revealed to me. I knew anger would be unleashed because a safe place had Read more about The Man Response[…]






Truth Wins

I believe truth always wins. Several years ago, before Kota knew all of my story, he randomly asked if I had ever been married before. Cue lump in throat. I told him, no. I told a lie. I lied. I lied to my son. Perhaps that wasn’t the time to tell him. I don’t know. But my past, and all Read more about Truth Wins[…]